Sunday, May 04, 2008
Your Presence Counts~!
u know... sometimes i always blabber about existence... presence of a fren to juz hang ard with me when i'm feelin down..... dat wat i dun really need is to talk... in fact i hate talkin when i'm feelin down.. i hate discussing... which in fact i might say watz happenin when i feel better.... and sometimes i juz feel grouchy due to a mass of lil things dat dampen my mood.... oh well.. but anyway i know i've always got a pet dat willl accompany me for latenight show and not probe abt things unless i say...., even tho she might not be feelin totally well and ish super tired....... thanks arhhh.... u've done it twice for me and i'll always remember.... 疼你不是白疼的... hahhaa.... once it even rained after we came outta e movie theatre...
well... sometimes.. when u dun feel like sayin anything... a friend's presence and existence actually counts alot..... its a kinda of mental support in case u dunch know or am not the type dat reacts this way.... i've actually told ppl before on things like dis.. dat its not always talkin dat makes someone feel better be it thru little unhappy things dat happen or be it serious things... but there are always ppl who dun understand... and think... wat can you really do without talkin it out... talkin abt things may be good but it may not always be the best to do so... at a certain time.... not sure if u get wat i mean... but some times... to talk or not to talk.. depends on when it is.. and the ppl involved as well... anyway.... last week i read abt somethg from ODB online... and it sorta describe dis kinda comfort dat a fren provides.... even without speaking... =)
Our Daily Bread 28 Aprclick on top to read if u haven read it or am using another devotional... i randomly use odb or devotionals from crosswalk... so i dun actually follow odb always... or sometimes i juz look thru both... if i have e time..
"In our shattered times, anguish relents
Not at mere idle words spoken in vain,
But rather from the silent eloquence
Bestowed by those rare souls who share our pain. "
—Evans
this quote kinda sounded very beautiful.... , well, to me lar....often u may tink u do not know wat to do... to comfort another person who's been hurt or upset greatly.... but you might not know... sometimes juz being there, with the person... actually soothes the person's hurtin soul greatly that the person actually feels better.... u might not know wat the person's been through, be it big or small, be it arguements or wateva, but juz sittin down n offering your time... juz to be with the person.... may actually make e person feel better lar.... not exactly sure howda express totally with words... but dis is probably somethg u gotta feel for urself....
kinda have alot of thots on my mind lately.. but anyway.. it juz goes to show my mind aint dead yet.. and my brain cells are still workin coz i tink. =P k.. being lame agains.... hahaha... sometimes i do tink.. but i juz dun bother to voice em all out.. and sometimes i'm juz plain lazy to tink abt things... =p =p =p
Jie crapped at 7:58 PM
----------
